Boyfriend still has a dating profile
You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.Your motivations for checking up on this are worth looking at, though, because it gives me the feeling that either something inside you feels like you don’t quite trust this guy or that you don’t trust the relationship you’re in to have trust as a quality (and so you’re always checking and testing because you don’t have that trust to begin with…Be a woman of value who speaks up and knows her bottom line about how she wants to be treated. This post comes from Group Therapy in our Très Sugar Community. We talk on the phone every day, and see each other at least twice a week.I’m not interested in dating anyone besides you right now and I’m ready to shut down my online dating profile to get to know you better. ” In this short conversation, you simply state how you feel about him (without any false promises of the future), and you also let him know what you want from him.Now it’s his turn turn to let you know what he wants. If he says he’s not ready to shut down his profile, will you walk away?It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?
But you do need to be sure you’re on the same page in order for you to feel valued.
But my trust has been betrayed in the past in different ways.
I don't want to waste my time if I am going to get hurt again. Please be sensitive, and serious in your replies, thank-you! The thing is though you both said you were going to delete your accounts and agreed to it. Either he is keeping his options open, or he just never deleted it and its no big deal. I would spy (yea sure it may be seen as "bad" to some people) but I would.
As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.
Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.